There are millions of erotic fantasies and we take a look at the most popular adult sex fantasies as described on sex personals.

Sex is a mind game and that is why fantasising about something erotic is such a great passion enhancer for adult sex. Many couples engaging in swingers sex use fantasies for foreplay and to connect on a deeper level with their partners. There are many new fantasies out there and the best place to read about them is by looking at sex contacts or sex personals online.

By reading about other people's secret fantasies you are bound to open up your mind to new experiences and use the sex personals to make new contacts that are willing to take part in your fantasies. One such a fantasy posted by a retired nurse on the sex personals is the infantilism fantasy. In this fantasy she takes on the role of a nurse or teacher and then she mothers you and trains you in what is right and wrong. If it has always been your fantasy to be mothered and to act like a baby then this lady claims she will make you feel part of her family.

Domination - a huge turn on

A lot of people have fantasies about being made to do things they wouldn't normally do. This is called domination and can include adult sex activities like bondage, whipping, discipline, sadomasochism and restraint. It also involves role playing and many sex personals say they will play stereotypical roles like 'the tart' or 'the butch leatherman'.

"If you are under someone else's control you do as you are asked to do and you have to expect the unexpected", says an experienced submissive. "In a way it's a sense of freedom and rather relaxing being a submissive person, especially if your day job demands you to be in control and confident all day long."

A common and controversial sex-fantasy among women is to being taken or aggressively dominated by a man in a 'rape' role-playing situation. It is about the stranger that overpowers you in the car park or the pirate that kidnaps you and turns you into his sex slave. According to a popular women's magazine fantasising about rape can be a way of escaping or disconnecting from your daily stresses. It is a way of relinquishing personal control by assuming a submissive role. They also claim that a domination fantasy can be rough - even involving screaming, shouting or smacking - or it can be romantic, where your partner ties you up with silk scarves, slowly teasing you, building you up to a very powerful orgasm.

Rubber, cellophane and mummification

Another very popular fetish or fantasy that is described on adult sex sites is wearing an outfit made from rubber, leather or pvc. The huge turn on with rubber is the smell and the fact that you feel tightly encased within it. Some even go as far as to claim that rubber will heighten your orgasm.

One swinger describes his custom made rubber suit as wearing another skin. Foreplay for this sex addicts is dressing up in his leather outfit and having sex through undone zips. He says:" to do this you have to talc the rubber inside and out to make is slippery. It's very bizarre and it allows you to play games with the other person."

Restriction can also take on other forms like mummification, where one is wrapped up in bandages and left alone for hours, or wrapping yourself in cellophane. A transvestite on another swingers personal ad claims that this type of confinement brings peace of mind because you are left alone for hours.

Now that you have a broad overview of the most popular fantasies discussed on sex personals, I hope your appetite is wet for even more intriguing fantasies that you can read about and take part in.

About the Author

Irene, webmaster of www.theadulthub.com Irene engaged in swinging in 2001, in 2003 became adult sites webmaster and copywriter. She is a constant participants of swinging parties in the UK and Europe. Her main area of interested is human sexuality.

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